The Hardest Thing About Grief

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If you were my patient and you were grieving, I would comfort you. Most of the time, I would know the words to say and the ones to skip. I would help you think about loss, grief, and life in

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Random Thoughts About Planning A Funeral

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I planned my first funeral a few months ago. I am talking about my wife Uzma’s funeral. She died on January 30, 2019. Uzma had cancer. When her doctors couldn’t stop cancer from having Uzma, they referred her to hospice.

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The Hospice Way To A Good Death

My wife Uzma died peacefully at home. She hadn’t taken any painkillers for three days. Our kids, my parents, and I were next to her. In the weeks leading up to her death, she was visited by many old friends.

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How A Doctor Chose Her Last Doctor

About one and a half years before she died, my wife Uzma, undergoing treatment for stage 4 breast cancer , started looking for an appointment with a palliative care physician close to home. She called a few different palliative care

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