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Have you ever found yourself in a challenging situation, unsure how to move forward? We’ve all been there, grappling with difficult decisions or demanding circumstances. Recently, when struggling with a potentially tricky interpersonal situation, I ruminated and mulled over various courses of action. None of those paths forward sat well with me.
Then I came across a powerful question that transformed the way I approached that moment:
“How would the best version of me handle this situation?”
This question is a game-changer, and here’s why:
- Self-awareness: By asking this question, we create an opportunity to reflect on our values, strengths, and aspirations. It allows us to align our actions with who we want to be.
- Perspective Shift: This reframe helps us move from a reactive state to a proactive one, empowering us to take charge of the situation. We shift from being a victim to the hero of our story.
- Solution-Oriented: The question encourages us to think creatively and focus on solutions instead of dwelling on problems. It snaps us from the past and sets our sight toward the future. It fosters resilience and adaptability – essential skills for success in our ever-changing world.
- Accountability: By considering how the best version of oneself would act, we take responsibility for our actions and decisions. This ownership leads to better decision-making and increased self-confidence.
- Empathy: By encouraging you to be better humans, the question invites us to put ourselves in others’ shoes, fostering empathy and compassion. These qualities are critical for building strong relationships and navigating complex situations.
So, the next time you face a challenging situation or decision, take a moment to pause and ask yourself: “How would the best version of me handle this situation?”
Try it, and let me know if it works for you.
